When a traumatic event knocks us sideways, which of course in the run of life it would; we often collapse into ourselves. We withdraw from the outside world and every other form of world might exist at that time and retreat more and more into that which we believe is a safe haven ( Solitary Confinement), away from hurt. We believe we are protecting ourselves from the shocks and the bruises that life hits us with from time to time. We think this is better than hating, and bashing out at the world, heck it's even better than playing the blame card/Game. Right ?? Yes it's all of that and more.! In that flash of recoil sometimes we find ourselves, long enough to light a flame of recoup. While it can be a good thing to give ourselves some space, peace and quiet to re-centre ourselves, if we hang out here too long, which we do. we (can) become apathetic.
Apathy is a condition of being disinterested in the world. It is difficult to get motivated. There doesn't seem to be a point or meaning to anything. After a death, it is a common feeling of "what's the use? No one will get out of this life alive, anyway". Day to day drudgery of work, chores, responsibilities drag us deeper into this feeling that whatever we do is pointless and therefore worthless. Why bother?
To be Continued...!
- Jae
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